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I perceive romance as attempting even the impossible to instigate within the lady in your life the feeling of security of being appreciated forenriching your life. A single rose weekly with a tender note attached stating that one feels extremely fortunate to have the lady receptor of the rose in one's life. Hugs, touches and kisses given in abundance are another simple way to show appreciation. A telephone call in the middle of the day to her work with a joke or a simple indication of having her in your thoughts would help brighten up her day and make it bearable. Leaving work early and waiting for her in front of her work suggesting taking her to dinner and a movie would initiate within her the feeling of being loved and appreciated. Going home early and preparing a candle lit dinner and creating anticipation by putting a note at the door inviting her to enter and not to be afraid. When she opens the door, another note waiting for her telling her that she is close and should follow the direction written in the note which will lead her to a table with dinner and candle for the two of you. The man dressed elegantly waiting to seat her. Seeing you taking the time and putting on the effort to create this wonderful surprise for her would transfer her and her prince, you, to the paradise of love.
Women whom I encountered expressed their perception of romance in a manner that one can draw a common conclusion. The majority of women I posed the question concerning their definition and their perception of romance indicated that they wish to be appreciated, made feel wonderful about their feminine and mental assets and not be taken for granted. Some implied that being given flowers from time to time is conceived as being romantic. Preparing a candle lit dinners for two is conceived as romantic. Buying an expensive gift and wrapping it nicely to present it to the lady would be considered romantic. Walking hand in hand while absorbing the beauty of nature is another manner in which a man can display his romanticism. The problems pertinent to the question of being romantic or not are originated from the variance of the perception of what would be considered romantic among the man and woman in a relationship.
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